Girls all like to be praised. Although most boys can praise them, they always fail to impress girls. And blindly praising girls can easily turn you into a licker, so how should you praise girls?
Routine 1: Praise her behavior and characteristics
Direct compliments appear to be flattering. If you don't mean too much, praise them based on their behavior or a certain trait, which will make the other person sound more comfortable and more real.
For example, if you praise a girl for her beauty and say directly, "Miss, you are so beautiful," the girl will think that you are interested in her beauty and intend to please her, which will cause an imbalance between you and the girl. But it would be much better if we weaken the subject "little sister" and emphasize her characteristic "beautiful": "For a beautiful little sister, there will be many people willing to be friends with you."
Routine 2: Just right
If you don’t praise enough, or if you praise too much, girls will see through it as soon as they hear it, and then you won’t even be able to say anything. To achieve the desired effect of praise. Only with the right compliments can girls feel comfortable.
About what is just right, I will elaborate on it later.
Routine 3: Say what you feel
In other words, your words must be truly felt in your heart. Only when you have passed your thoughts can you appear sincere and make girls believe that these are your sincere thoughts.
For example, if you have no worries in your heart, but you keep saying "I'm so happy to see you", you may say so, but your expression may give you away, and then girls will think you are a bad person. I especially like to use clichés to coax people, which is hypocritical!
Sometimes we don’t know much about girls, and there is really not much value in the known information that we can boast about. This is embarrassing and exhausting. I don't even know what to say.
It’s simple, find another angle!
For example, let’s praise a girl’s name. Some girls’ names are really embarrassing...
Some girls’ names are particularly masculine, such as "X Zhen", "X Kai" and "X Liang". If you don’t say that she is a woman, ordinary people will still I would really consider her a brother.
There are also some girls whose names there are not even one million but one hundred thousand in the country, such as "X Juan", "X Li", "X Jia", etc., they are really not distinctive, maybe you go to the street If you take a walk around, you can see dozens of women with these words in their names.
It is indeed embarrassing for a girl to have a name that looks like a boy, but on the other hand, does it also have advantages?
"The name is domineering, and you will know it as soon as you hear it. I feel like she is a very capable girl and makes me feel very reliable.”
Girls’ names are too common and have no characteristics, but they are simple and easy to remember.
"This name is easy to remember. My cousin is also named this name. Does that mean I have another sister, haha."
