Of course there is nothing wrong with buying something for your girlfriend that you can afford, but if your girlfriend often asks you to buy things for her, it makes you feel annoyed, or the things your girlfriend asks you to buy for her have exceeded your expectations. ...In these cases, of course you can't show that you are unwilling to buy things for your girlfriend, lest your girlfriend think you are reluctant to spend money for her. So how do you cleverly refuse your girlfriend to let you buy things for her?
1. Reason with your girlfriend
In the process of love, a girlfriend may deliberately ask her boyfriend to buy things for her, in order to judge whether her boyfriend’s master is willing to buy something for her. Do you care about yourself when you spend your own money? In the same way, boys can also communicate with their girlfriends in a reasonable way. What is your current financial plan? You can not buy some things that are not necessary for the time being. Judging from the reaction of your girlfriend See if she really cares about you.
If your girlfriend becomes furious just because you rejected your girlfriend’s purchase request, and the purchase object is not indispensable, then at least you can judge that your girlfriend is a relatively shallow person. Of course it cannot be said that all she likes is your money. If that is the case, then she should look for someone more valuable instead of wasting time with you.
I can only say that your girlfriend is not yet mature and stable, has the ability to make money to meet her own needs, and knows how to control herself. People with material desires. Generally speaking, your girlfriend is just an ordinary material girlfriend. She loves material things more than she loves you, so in her opinion, it should be like this. If you can't do it or you have the conditions but are unwilling to do it, It means you don't cherish him and don't care about him.
It’s just that you are not on the same front in life, you do not have a common goal in life, all you have is an illusory vision.
A girlfriend who truly loves you will not ask you to buy things for her after understanding your financial arrangements and plans.
2. Two-way giving
It is said that relationships are about two-way giving. If your girlfriend always asks you to buy things for her, why can't you give her a hint and ask her to give it to you too? Shopping, for example, oh, I bought you so much, when can you reward me? If your girlfriend refuses, then you can tell her that she can refuse your request and you can refuse her request. (Rejection does not mean no love, but it will definitely make both of you uncomfortable)
Maybe your girlfriend will say that you are too She is fussy and so on, but the problem is that you always buy things for her, not to mention that she buys things for you. Maybe she doesn’t even show you the least concern and greetings. Then where are you in this relationship? What about status?
