I have always emphasized to everyone that no matter what problems you encounter in a relationship, do not choose to deal with it in a cold war way, because no matter how good the relationship is, You can't withstand the ravages of the cold war, so if you have the habit of cold war, get rid of this bad habit before she leaves, so that your relationship can last forever! Today the editor brings you the cold war Let’s take a look at how to solve it.
1. To communicate effectively
Here is a true story:
When I first got together with my boyfriend, he would often make me unhappy because of a behavior. When I asked him to do something, he started to agree because he was playing on his mobile phone. Okay, I forgot about it in the end...
I raised this issue very seriously after a certain quarrel, I guess it was Because of his serious attitude, he also realized the seriousness of the problem and began to pay attention to it.
If there is a similar situation in the future, he will immediately put down the phone and finish what I asked him to do.
When we came up with this problem later, he told me that he felt that many problems could be solved with a little attention, but Without good communication you will never find the problem.
What girls are often angry about is that you have not changed your wrong behavior and have not shown that you want to change it. (Key point, key point)
2. Let yourself calm down for a while
Never say forbidden words in anger, such as your ex or breakup. Some words will hurt you for a long time. This calming time cannot be too long, because if it is too long, you will not know what thoughts will pop up in her little head. There is no way that girls like to think about things.
3. Give each other a step up
In fact, after being together for a long time, we naturally have a tacit understanding, and we all know that the other person has almost calmed down. Giving a step at the right time can bring two people back together immediately. So don't stay there all the time. It's not embarrassing to give your girlfriend a step forward.
4. One party cannot always apologize
I think if one party in love is always bowing his head, it is a very unbalanced relationship. In the long run, it may explode one day?. Most of the time, it is right for boys to admit their mistakes, but sometimes it is inevitable in their hearts. It's unbalanced and occasionally requires more "coaxing" from girls.
Finally: Relationships are a matter of two people, so if you want a long-term relationship, two people have to work together. Come on~ !
