When a boy comes into contact with a girl, in addition to looking at the appearance, he should also look at the girl's upbringing. After all, the girl's upbringing determines whether your subsequent contact will be pleasant. If you are with an educated girl, you will feel that all the good things in the world surround her, making you feel comfortable both physically and mentally. But if you are pursuing an uneducated girl, then you may receive a lot of injustice and criticism, and being with such a girl will also be very tiring. So how do you judge a girl’s upbringing?
1. Educated girls are courteous to each other
Some girls take advantage of their status as girls to act coquettishly and take advantage. Boys always pay for meals and movies. Today I want to buy this bag tomorrow. If she wants to buy that set of cosmetics, there are indeed boys willing to pay for her. Such girls think they can get along well and are popular with boys, but boys will not really like such girls from the bottom of their hearts.
A truly educated girl will not take advantage of others easily. Even if she just borrows a piece of tape from others, she will still be a little bit shy. Gift snacks as a thank you. Because she knows how to reciprocate and knows that no one has the obligation to pay for herself without any reason. Although such a girl may make people feel polite and distant at first, you will like and appreciate her more and more as you get in touch with her.
2. Educated girls will not judge people by their appearance
In fact, there are too many people who judge people by their appearance. Take the gold-worshipping girl as an example. When she meets a rich second-generation girl, she I tried my best to curry favor, hoping that I would not have to struggle after becoming a rich second generation. And when a gold digger girl meets a poor boy, she may not even look at him twice. She will also say all kinds of sarcastic remarks to ridicule him, hoping that he will stay away from her.
Educated girls never judge people by their appearance, do not judge others by their profession, do not easily judge other people's dressing, and do not judge others by their poverty. Rich is the principle of making friends. For a boy who admires her, no matter what his condition is, she will always maintain a grateful attitude, but she will break it off immediately. Dislike will not turn into liking because she is moved.
3. Educated girls know how to advance and retreat
Educated girls are not soft persimmons, and they also know how to give in appropriately. So you will think that a well-educated girl is always decent and decent in front of others, and it seems that nothing can make her panic. In fact, it's not that she has a strong heart, but that she knows how to advance and retreat, and knows that problems should be solved privately. Arguing in the street like a shrew will always make people laugh.
Of course, education can also be faked. Only in the handling of some small details can a person's personality be reflected. True upbringing. So if you want to know whether a girl is really well-educated, you need to spend more time and pay more attention to it.Only by observing carefully can you know whether she is really educated.
