Girls test you in three stages: if you clear the level, she will be your girlfriend
In the process of love, girls often set up some tests to judge whether a boy is worthy of being entrusted to him for life. These tests are usually divided into three stages. Only when you successfully pass all the tests will she agree to be with you. Let’s take a look at these three stages.
Phase 1: Test your generosity Girls especially believe that a man who is willing to spend money on you may not necessarily like you, but a man who is unwilling to spend money on you must not like you. Therefore, the first stage for a girl to test a boy is not how much you love her, but whether you are willing to spend money for her. The test often starts when you first meet and date. She will see if you are active in paying for meals and whether you want to have sex with her. It depends on what arrangements you will make after the meal. For example, who will pay for the movie tickets and drinks. Afterwards, you go shopping to buy clothes and cosmetics. You are reluctant to spend this money on her. Generally, for a serious girl, the test in the first stage will not be too excessive, because she also knows that you have just met, so it is not appropriate for you to spend too much money, and she will not buy some valuable items in front of you. Therefore, be positive the first few times you date a girl. What she wants is not necessarily a gift, but your attitude. If you perform well, she will naturally leave a good impression on you and let you enter the second round of the test.
Phase 2: Test your patience with her In the eyes of girls, patience is an essential quality for a qualified boyfriend. If he can't even be patient with his future girlfriend, then who will he be patient with? So, stage two is a test of your patience. This kind of test is very common, I believe you have encountered it, such as a girl being late for a date. Part of the reason is that putting on makeup is a waste of time, but more importantly, she did it on purpose to see your reaction. If you keep urging during this process, or even act particularly angry, then I'm sorry, but you will most likely fail this test. But if you can comfort a girl not to rush and take your time, and give her appropriate care after she arrives, then her favorability towards you will definitely increase slowly. It is worth mentioning that there is only one chance for this test. If you fail, both of you will be out of luck.
Stage 3: Test whether you are sincere to her
If you have entered this stage, congratulations, you are only one step away from becoming a regular employee. There will be relatively more tests at this stage, because it is really important. Usually, girls will use reasons such as illness or discomfort to test boys to see if they will act or express something. If you truly care about her, you won't hesitate to lend a helping hand when she needs help. And if you just do it half-heartedly, then I'm afraid it will be difficult for you to pass this level.
In short, girls test you in three stages to ensure that they can find a partner worth relying on. As boys, we should understand and accept these tests and strive to become the ideal partner in their hearts. Only in this way can we reap beautiful love.