When a girlfriend is angry or depressed, as boyfriends we often feel at a loss what to do. Sometimes, a joke can resolve the awkward and tense atmosphere and help your girlfriend smile again. Here are some ways to use jokes to cheer up your girlfriend after an argument.
1. Choose the right time
When your girlfriend is depressed, it is very important to choose a suitable time to enlighten her. If she is letting off steam or in her own world, joking at this point may be misinterpreted as not caring about her feelings. So try using jokes after she's calmed down a bit.
2. Consider her preferences
It is important to understand your girlfriend’s hobbies and humor tastes . Everyone takes jokes differently, so make sure the jokes you choose are in line with her preferences. If she likes dry humor, she can choose some sarcastic jokes; if she likes warm and cute jokes, she can choose some jokes about animals or children.
3. Use humor to resolve embarrassment
When your girlfriend is angry or depressed, there is often an awkward atmosphere. At this time, a humorous joke can break the ice and relieve the tense atmosphere. For example, you could say, "Honey, I just saw a bird fly over and it said, 'Don't worry, she'll forgive you soon.'" Such a joke will both make her laugh and make her laugh. Let her know you care about her.
4. Create a light-hearted environment
In order for jokes to be more effective, it is very important to create a light-hearted environment. You can choose a comfortable place, such as home or a park, and share jokes in a warm atmosphere. In addition, you can add some appropriate actions and expressions to add laughter, such as making exaggerated expressions or imitating funny sounds.
5. Respect her feelings
The most important thing is to respect her feelings when using jokes to tease her. If she doesn't want to laugh or doesn't like your jokes, don't force her. Respect her feelings and give her enough space and time to process her emotions.
Using jokes to calm your girlfriend down after an argument is an effective way. By choosing the right time, considering her preferences, using humor to diffuse awkwardness, creating a light-hearted environment, and respecting her feelings, we can help our girlfriend regain her smile and deepen our relationship.
