Not all relationships can be stable for a long time. Many people do not have the right way to maintain relationships, so many relationships end in breakups. How can a relationship last long?
1. Show high value
Value is the most fundamental thing to attract the other party. Showing high value will attract the other party. interested in you.
At the same time, if you want to keep the other party interested, you must provide incentives to let the other party taste the sweetness, so that she will be willing to continue to be with you.
For example:
You are a knowledgeable person who likes to read. You can take the initiative to show your advantages in this area when chatting with a girl and let her admire you.
You can take the initiative to talk to her about some books that she is interested in, so that she feels that you can have common hobbies and are willing to read a book together, and she will be willing to rely on you.
2. Let her worship you
Obedience neither means that you completely follow her ideas nor Let her obey you completely, but you must have your own principles and bottom line in the face of her demands.
You can do a small obedience test first. For example, if you are a few years older than a girl, you can ask the girl to call you brother, so that she will have some psychological awe and obey you.
This obedience is continuous and step-by-step. You cannot keep her in a low position, and you cannot show your superiority. You must make her worship you, and at the same time, you can give her enough respect and she will be willing to do it. This obedience.
For example:
If you are repairing a girl’s computer, the correct way is to use it in your free time, not the other person’s time. If it is done in 30 minutes, then you deliberately delayed it until 2 hours, even until meal time.
During the repair process, you can ask her to do some simple things for you to give her a sufficient sense of participation. When the repair is completed, if she thanks you and invites you to dinner, you can also accept.
3. Learn to mobilize the atmosphere
The most important thing in chatting is not the topic, but the atmosphere. The same thing Topics, different people will create different atmospheres.
You want her to feel happy chatting with you. When you get to the interesting part, you can stop appropriately and use the excuse that you have something to do and talk again when you have time. This will whet the other person's appetite. The other party may even look forward to the next chat.
Maintaining your own framework means that when women cannot do what they say, we must stick to the framework rules we have set for ourselves.
In an intimate relationship, value is the basis for maintaining the relationship between two people.Without value, there is no attraction. If you want to establish your own love framework, you must improve your self-worth.
Only when you have high value will others willingly enter the set framework, otherwise they will give up on you at any time.
Value is dynamic and not static. You may be the low-value party at the beginning of the relationship, but as time goes by, your income changes and the value gradually increases. , you might move from low value to high value.
Therefore, the current low value is not so scary. The current low value does not mean that it will always be low value. The most important thing is to have the awareness of improving value and keep yourself in the process of improving value.
